Well, if it were *me* I would just tell her and hope she loved me anyway. Because honesty is important in a relationship and I can't tell a lie to save my life anyway. But several of my friends didn't tell their girlfriends who they were until the wedding day, or even later, and it seems to have gone okay for them.
(Well, some of them, anyway.)
In terms of getting her to like you, I suggest being persistent. Keep at it and eventually she will see that you're the one for her!
Best of luck! Ollie
PS: Do you talk in your sleep? I hear that's an excellent way to break the news!
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Date: 2009-03-30 04:29 am (UTC)Well, if it were *me* I would just tell her and hope she loved me anyway. Because honesty is important in a relationship
and I can't tell a lie to save my life anyway. But several of my friends didn't tell their girlfriends who they were until the wedding day, or even later, and it seems to have gone okay for them.(Well, some of them, anyway.)
In terms of getting her to like you, I suggest being persistent. Keep at it and eventually she will see that you're the one for her!
Best of luck!
Ollie
PS: Do you talk in your sleep? I hear that's an excellent way to break the news!